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Non-Maternity Clothes That Are Cute AND Bump-Friendly

When you’re pregnant, there are certain articles of clothing that you just can’t avoid buying in maternity styles (hello pants). For both of my pregnancies, I started wearing maternity jeans before the end of the first trimester because the waistbands of my normal skinnies got too uncomfortable. But as much as possible, I try to buy regular clothing that works with my growing bump because I hate dropping money on things I’ll only wear for a matter of months. Fortunately, there are lots of regular clothes these days that work for most, if not all of pregnancy. With tunics and flowy styles being so in, it’s a great time to be pregnant! For this post I rounded up a number of tops (and a pair of jeggings) that are cute, bump-friendly, and affordable. Since I live in Connecticut and it’s currently winter, I’m focusing on colder weather options, but many of these items can be worn well into spring. 

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1. BP. Side Slit Tee ($19): I picked up this tee at Nordstrom over Thanksgiving before I was showing much because I love its length and hi/low hem. I have a long torso and I’m always on the hunt for basic long tees that I can wear with leggings or skinny jeans. This one fits the bill!

2. Halogen Knit Poplin Mix Top ($41.40; currently 40% off!): I came across this top this week and I’m seriously considering adding it to my cart. I love the contrasting colors and billowy sleeves and the fact that it’s stylish but also seems super comfy.

3. LUSH Perfect Roll Tab Sleeve Tunic ($27.90; currently 33% off!): I actually bought this tunic after I had my first baby when I was still carrying around excess baby weight, and it’s now perfect for my growing baby bump. If you’re looking for something a little more formal to wear to work, I highly recommend this top. I may pick it up in more colors.

4. Free People Easy Goes It Denim Leggings ($58): I own these in two washes–rich blue and black–and I made it up until 20 weeks of pregnancy wearing them comfortably. Because they’re jeggings and have an elasticized waistband, they have a lot of give, way more so than any of my other jeans. And they don’t bag out! I lived in these long before I got pregnant and was pleasantly surprised that I was able to wear them this long during pregnancy.

5. Free People Lover Rib Split Back Pullover ($40.80; currently 40% off!): Another Free People pick I recently discovered.  Free People is a good bet during pregnancy in general because the brand features so many drapey styles, but I often find the pricing to be a bit outside of what I like to spend. Fortunately many of their items go on sale and this particular top is majorly discounted right now! The one I ordered, in pink, is currently sold out, but it’s still available in black in all sizes.

6. Old Navy Pintuck Lace-Yoke Swing Top ($28; currently 20% off!): The flowy silhouette of this shirt works great with skinny jeans when not pregnant, and it’s also loose enough to cover a growing baby bump stylishly.

7. Old Navy Lux Rib-Neck Tunic ($22.99): This is a great basic and versatile tee that can be dressed up or down.  

8. Sylvia Alexander Women’s Poncho Turtleneck ($34.99): I’m not sure how much longer ponchos will be in style, but you may as well take advantage of the trend while you can! It doesn’t get much more comfortable than wearing the equivalent of a blanket. I really like the color and design of this one in particular.

9. The Limited Lace-Up Shaker Stitch Tunic Top ($47.40; 40% off): I like that this tunic is a bit more form fitting but still long enough to accommodate a belly. And the lace-up sides add a chic touch.

If you’re pregnant and searching for comfortable and stylish clothing options, I hope this provided some inspiration! And let me know if you have any non-maternity faves of your own.

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Baby #2!

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I couldn’t be happier to share that David and I are expecting baby number 2 this spring! The due date is three weeks before Jackson turns two. We shared the news with our families at Thanksgiving and on social media the Friday before Christmas, but I’m planning on creating some pregnancy-related content on the blog, so I wanted to announce it here as well. Believe it or not, I’m actually about halfway through the pregnancy already (I’ll be officially 20 weeks along on Monday), and fortunately, it has been uneventful so far. I can’t believe how fast the time is flying!

Although I’m a little nervous about how we’re going to manage two kiddos, I’m overjoyed to have the opportunity to be a mom to another little human. While motherhood certainly isn’t all fun and games, it has made me happier than I ever thought possible, and has enriched my life in so many wonderful ways. That probably sounds cheesy, but it’s true!

Stay tuned for more pregnancy content soon. In the meantime, if you have any advice to share on transitioning from one baby to two, I can take all the tips I can get!

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One of Those Days

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Hello and happy Friday! I hope you have some fun weekend plans in store. Weather permitting, we’re going to a party on Saturday with a group of friends I’ve known forever and I’m really looking forward to it.

But backing up for a second, I want to talk about Wednesday. This past Wednesday I took Jackson for his first swim lesson at our local YMCA. (Quick sidebar, I’m no longer at my former job, which is why I was able to do this during the week. It’s kind of a long story and one for another post!) We have him in daycare twice a week and I wanted to find at least one activity to take him to on the days it’s just the two of us. I figured swim lessons would be great because he generally loves the water and enjoys being around other kids. This week was the first class, and I fully expected it to go well. I imagined Jackson having a ball and not wanting the class to end. Man, I could not have been more wrong! I’m not exaggerating when I say it was a complete and total disaster.

First, the main parking lot close to the entrance was completely full, so I had to go around the corner to an underground parking garage where they provide additional parking. That was also completely full. I finally found a spot on the other side of the building, a good 10-15 minutes later. This probably doesn’t sound like a big deal but when you’re toting a toddler and all of your swim gear in frigid temperatures and you have to walk a distance to get inside, it’s majorly annoying.

After the unexpected delay finding parking I was going to be late for the class, so I rushed with Jackson into the locker room. As soon as I set foot inside, he started wailing. Not just crying but full-on bawling with real tears and sobs. He is typically so joyful and happy and I still have no idea what set him off. I took him into the changing room to get him into his swimsuit and tried to calm him down, to no avail. I thought maybe once we got out of the locker room and into the pool he’d be distracted and would stop crying. Nope. The class started and we did intros, as best we could over Jackson’s screaming anyway, and I tried to get through the first exercise. When the crying continued without any sign of letting up, I just decided to throw in the towel and leave. He was obviously miserable and the crying was too disruptive to the other families.

So I dragged Jackson back to the locker room, still screaming, to get dressed to go home. Of course it’s freezing and winter and I was parked far away so I couldn’t just throw a shirt on him and call it a day. I spent another 15 minutes getting both of us out of our bathing suits (and his wet diaper) and into warm, dry clothes, hats, coats, etc. all while he continued screaming. I swear the staff must have thought I was torturing him! By the time I was finally ready to go, the class had ended and the other moms were starting to come into the locker room. I was on the brink of a meltdown myself at this point and on the verge of tears. As soon as we got outside Jackson stopped crying, of course, and he was mostly back to normal by the time we got home.  

The whole experience was unexpectedly negative and it left me feeling frustrated, guilty and defeated. But I reminded myself that some days are going to be like this. You can’t win ‘em all and that’s okay. I can’t let this one experience scare me off of trying other things. Although part of me never wants to go to swim lessons again and I’m kind of dreading it, I’m going to take Jackson again next week. Maybe he was having an off day this time or maybe he’s just not ready. We’ll see.

If you’re wondering why I’m sharing this it’s because I feel like we rarely see the full picture of parenting on social media. Usually it’s all smiles and rainbows and perfection (I’m guilty of this too), but days like this happen too, and I think it’s important to share that side as well. On that note, have you had a similar experience to this? Or do you have any words of wisdom to share about how to make next week’s lesson go a little more smoothly? I’d love to know!

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My Sleep Training Experience

There are different schools of thought when it comes to sleep training (whether or not to do it, the best approach to take, the optimal time to start, etc.) and few topics seem to spark the kind of debate that sleep training triggers. Before I had Jackson, I didn’t know how I’d feel about it, honestly. And I didn’t have to think much about it until Jackson was almost six months old, because from about two to five and a half months, he was a great overnight sleeper (although daytime was a different story). For a while I thought I’d hit the jackpot with an amazing night sleeper and would never have to deal with the dreaded sleep training conundrum. But alas, that turned out to be major wishful thinking.

Right before I was scheduled to return to work from maternity leave, when Jackson was nearly six months old, he went from waking only once per night (totally manageable) to waking every 90 minutes to two hours (complete torture). He never even did that as a newborn! The only way I could get him back down each time was to nurse him, so naturally, I was completely exhausted every single day. Like walking zombie exhausted. I thought I was going to lose my mind. I kept thinking it must be a phase or regression and that Jackson’s sleep would get back on track eventually on its own, so I just dealt with it for a while, but after a few months of this constant waking every night, it was pretty clear that this had become the new normal. Since I was back at work and needing to be functional during the day, something had to give. I was at my wit’s end. So, when Jackson was around eight months old, David and I agreed to try a modified version of sleep training.

In my research, I knew that we shouldn’t start a training approach that we weren’t confident we could stick with, so full-blown cry-it-out was off the table. There were other, “gentler” techniques that we could have tried, but they all involved following the same steps throughout the entire night for as long as it took to achieve success. Living in an apartment at the time, and one with zero sound proofing at that, I didn’t want to let my baby cry for extended periods of time at all hours. I also didn’t want to lose even more sleep by having to deal with long bouts of crying in the wee hours, and the anxiety that provokes. It’s just not something I’m comfortable with, neighbors aside.

My solution was to start “soft training” Jackson by letting him cry when I initially put him down for bed around 6pm, but still tend to him when he woke up throughout the night. I followed my usual routine of bath, book, nurse, but instead of nursing him until he was nearly out, I put him in the crib fully awake (I know they say to do this early on, but Jackson was a terrible napper and by evening, I just wanted to get some shut eye). After turning on the sound machine and flipping off the lights, I walked out and let him cry for a while before returning to soothe him. I first went in after five minutes to lie him back down and pat his stomach for a few seconds, then returned after ten minutes, etc. Surprisingly, the first night he initially cried on and off for only about 30 minutes before falling asleep. And he only woke up in the night a couple of times, and easily went back down after nursing. The second night he cried for less than twenty minutes before going down, and the third, less than ten. By the fourth, he hardly cried at all, and moving forward after that, he went right to bed without a peep. He was still waking up once or twice each night after going to bed, and when he did, I’d nurse him for a few minutes, put him down awake, and he’d go right back to sleep. But this was a compromise I could deal with. I’m sure this approach wouldn’t appeal to everyone, but for me it worked.

Somewhere along the way, Jackson eventually started sleeping entirely through the night on his own. Now he’s an amazing sleeper! He goes to bed between 6:30 and 7pm and usually wakes up between 6 and 7am. Sometimes I wonder if I should have done some kind of sleep training earlier or tried a different method, but I did what I was comfortable with at the time and we’re in a great place with sleep now. That’s what matters. I think moms need to do what’s right for them and there’s no one size fits all solution when it comes to sleep training (or not). I have friends who have done full-on cry-it-out and friends who co-slept with their kids for years. I say, to each their own. Your kids will be fine either way, so do what you have to do to get through the day!

What’s your philosophy on sleep training? Yay? Nay? Did it work for you?

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Baby Recap: Nine Months Old

I’ve been seriously slacking on posting over the past couple weeks and really have no excuse other than the fact that the weather has left me majorly unmotivated. This time of year always makes me super antsy to get outside and back into nature, while uninspired to do anything indoors. Anyone else out there in the same boat? But, our little peanut is nine months old today, so I had to pop on and at least write a monthly recap!

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I wish I could say the past month has been an improvement from the previous one in terms of sickness, but unfortunately, it’s just been a continuation of ailments for Jackson. About a week and a half ago he was hit with the worst one yet–Hand, Foot and Mouth Disease! If you’re not familiar with this one, which I personally wasn’t until having a kid, it’s a nasty virus that can cause a blister-like rash on the hands, feet, and IN the mouth/throat, along with fever, runny nose, and sore throat. The rash doesn’t actually show up until a couple days after the onset of initial symptoms, so we had no idea he was dealing with this when the virus was at its peak.

The first clue he was sick again was a fever, which started over a weekend, coupled with unusual fussiness and a decreased appetite. Since Jackson had been dealing with a series of ear infections, I brought him back to the doctor that Monday to get him checked out. The diagnosis? His ear infection hadn’t cleared and needed to be treated with different antibiotics. Seriously?! I trudged back over to the pharmacy to fill the prescription and dutifully gave Jackson his first two doses, despite his kicking and screaming. I swear it was easier to give medication to our former cat!

I didn’t think much of the ear infection diagnosis until Monday evening, when the shit really hit the fan. Jackson was much harder than usual to get to sleep for the night and was drooling so excessively that he was coughing and choking. He also had zero interest in nursing after basically not eating all day. After finally getting him to sleep, he woke up at 12am crying intensely. He proceeded to cry inconsolably from midnight to about 6am, with a couple periods of sleep that lasted about 40 minutes each. Still no nursing. The Motrin we gave him did nothing to calm him down. Needless to say, it was by far the worst night we’ve had with Jackson to date. Since all of this happened at the same time that Jackson’s first tooth started coming in, and many of the symptoms (drooling, poor appetite, fussiness, mild fever) can be attributed to teething, I thought maybe teething was to blame, but his behavior seemed far too extreme to just be teething, or even an ear infection, honestly.

Although I had a hunch something more was at play, this all coincided with a big snow storm that hit Monday night into Tuesday (because, of course) so the doctor’s office and pretty much everything else was closed Tuesday. Fortunately, by Tuesday, Jackson’s behavior had improved quite a bit and it seemed like the worst was over, which was a huge relief to say the least. By Wednesday he was even better, aside from a mysterious rash that cropped up. Concerned that it might be a reaction to the new antibiotics, I brought him back into the pediatrician and saw a different doctor at the practice, who diagnosed Hand, Foot and Mouth. By then the telltale rash was visible and Jackson had sores lining his mouth and throat! The doctor said this can be more painful than strep, which explains why he was screaming all night and wouldn’t eat at all, our poor guy! I felt awful. At least we had an explanation that made sense.

A couple days after getting the Hand, Foot and Mouth diagnosis, Jackson developed pink eye. How, I have NO idea. He hadn’t been exposed to anyone other than me and David in over a week! Must have been the doctor’s office. By this point I didn’t know whether to laugh or cry. This infection didn’t seem to bother or phase him at all and was easy to treat, so I guess if he had to have something, this wasn’t so bad. And that about takes us up to today in terms of sickness. Here’s to hoping this section of my ten month recap isn’t so lengthy!

Now, onto happier things…

Development

Jackson’s feisty little personality is really starting to emerge, as is his awareness of who’s around and what’s going on. Now when I leave the room for even just a few seconds, he’ll start crying until I come back. Even when I’m in sight, if he’s not getting the kind of attention he wants, he will make it known! And if I take something away that he’s not done playing with yet, God forbid!, the tears ensure. But he’s also the happiest, most joyful and loving little boy and so fun to be around (most of the time).

Jackson is crawling, sort of. He still mostly goes backwards but finally figured out how to go forward, although he does it reluctantly. If he really wants something, he figures out a way! He still loves standing and can stand for quite a long time as long as he has something to hold onto for balance. He’s still babbling up a storm but hasn’t really said anything new.

As I mentioned earlier, Jackson’s first tooth has arrived! One of the front bottom teeth started to emerge a couple weeks ago and it’s sharp, let me tell you! I’m thinking other baby teeth can’t be far behind.

Sleep

Sleep still sucks, to be honest. This goes without saying when Jackson was so sick and uncomfortable, but it’s still not great now that Jackson has recovered. It’s challenging to both get him to sleep and get him to stay asleep. He’s still in our room and has actually been sleeping in our bed for the past few weeks since he had been so fussy, but now I think he’s gotten used to the bed and doesn’t want to sleep anywhere else. As much as I enjoy cuddling with our little snuggle bug, we have to get him comfortable sleeping in his own bed again.

Food

Jackson loves food, just like his mommy and daddy! He’s obsessed with the baby oat cereal we give him and always gobbles it up whenever we serve it. He also seems to love any puree that has apples in it, especially the apples and broccoli, which sounds like a bizarre combo. Although we’re still feeding him purees with a spoon, we’ve also started giving small pieces of soft solids that he can pick up and feed himself so that he gets used to the action and textures. So far we’ve given him banana, peas, avocado, brown rice, and sweet potato. He seems to like feeding himself, even if most of the food winds up in his bib or on the floor!

Despite the nursing setback during Jackson’s illnesses, I’m still breastfeeding. My aim is to keep it up until he’s one, if it works out. Just gonna go with the flow. We’ll see!

Current Faves

Here are some of the things we’re loving around here these days, in no particular order:

  • Foam cubes: Last month I mentioned the foam playmat, which is still getting a ton of use, but David ordered a bunch more of the squares to piece together some cubes, and Jackson has been loving using them as support to stand and look out the window. So cute!

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  • Curious George plush: Good friends of ours gifted Jackson a giant plush Curious George soon after he was born and we recently pulled it back out. He got so excited! I’m not sure if it’s the size or his face or what but he’s loving him right now.
  • Baby Buddy 1st toothbrush teether: My mom picked this up a while back and we gave it to Jackson once we realized his first tooth was poking through. I’m not sure if it offers any relief for teething but he loves sucking on it. Babby Buddy also makes other teething products that I’m going to give a try.
  • Sing Along with Elmo book: Another goodie picked up by my mom. Each page corresponds to a colored button on the side of the book that plays a tune when you push it. Pretty ingenious. It’s an old book so I couldn’t find it online but here’s something similar.
  • Grabbing things: If we set Jackson up with a laundry basket full of clothes or sit him in front of his little bookcase full of books, he’s a happy camper! He has a ball pulling all the clothes out of the basket or the books off the shelf. You’d think this would get old but it hasn’t so far.

That’s about it. Excited to see what’s in store for month ten! Until then, here are some of my favorite shots from the past few weeks:

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Baby Registry Must-Haves

 

Several of my friends are pregnant with their first babies right now and are going through the process of creating a baby registry. Having had my little one last year, I know all too well how overwhelming this can be. With the plethora of products out there beckoning first-time parents, it’s hard to separate the must-buys from the gimmicks. I was as clueless as they come when creating my own registry and had no idea where to start. After surviving eight months with an infant though, I now have a pretty good idea of what to stock and what to skip. All babies are different of course, so some of the things Jackson loved may not suit other little ones, but generally speaking, I don’t think you can go wrong with the list of basics below. If you’re a soon-to-be mom looking for registry tips, I hope this helps! 

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  1. Bouncer / Rock N’ PlayJackson LIVED in this and the Boppy lounging pillow for the first month. When I was pregnant and deciding what to put on my registry, I asked one of my best friends what single, can’t-live-without item she would recommend and this was it. Man was she right! We got so, so much use out of this rocker. Jackson actually slept in this next to our bed until he was 6 months old!  It has a slight incline so it’s great for babies that don’t like being flat on their backs, and  it’s not big so can easily be moved from room to room during the day as needed. We liked the Graco one we got but there are tons of options that are probably pretty comparable. 
  1. Travel / Mini Crib: We initially bought this to take on trips to visit family, but wound up setting it up next to our bed once Jackson outgrew the rocker and we still weren’t ready to transition him to the nursery (at 8 months old we still haven’t). The new recommendation from the AAP (American Academy of Pediatrics) is to have babies sleep in the same room as you for the first year, if possible. Truthfully, we’ve kept Jackson in our room more because of the sleep challenges we’re experiencing with him than feeling like we need to follow the new recommendation, but whatever the case may be, having a portable crib that you can keep by your bed is super helpful. I like this version because it allows you to lower the mattress once the baby has outgrown the bassinet, so you can use it at the newborn stage and beyond.
  1. White Noise/Sound MachineWe love this Skip Hop one and use it every night! It has both melodies and nature sound options, plus serves as a nightlight, so it kills two birds with one stone. I definitely recommend getting some kind of sound machine, especially if you live in an apartment and have to drown out noise that you may not be able to control.
  1. Swaddle BlanketWe didn’t use these for all that long but they’re useful in the early days if your baby likes being swaddled and you find swaddling to be a pain in the ass like I did, ha! They take the guess work out of it.
  1. Sleep Sacks: These are good for once the baby is over swaddling or has outgrown it. Since you’re not supposed to put blankets in the crib with the baby to sleep, this lets you wrap him without having to worry about a blanket getting tangled, etc. We still use one.
  1. Baby MonitorWe have a Samsung version that works just fine and that I’ve generally been pleased with, although I’m not married to this particular model. I highly recommend having some kind baby monitor for peace of mind.

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  1. Baby Lounging Pillow We have the Boppy brand in the elephant print but it comes in a bunch of different designs. Jackson loved this thing for the first month or so. Before he could sit up, it was so nice to have a comfortable place to put him besides the rocker where he could look around and observe .
  1. Activity Gym: Once Jackson was about 3-4 months old and could reach for things, this activity gym was great. I’d place him on his back in the center of the mat and it kept him engaged for quite a while! It’s also a good place to practice tummy time. And for people who are tight on space (aren’t we all), the whole thing easily folds back up into the plastic case it comes in so you can quickly stow it away.
  1. Floor Seat: Once Jackson was sitting with support he wanted to be upright constantly. I mean ALL the time. This little seat allowed him to be in a seated position while on the floor or couch (with supervision of course) without us having to always hold him on our laps. It also folds and can be tucked away.
  1. Foam Play Mat: There are about a billion different foam mats to choose from at different price points but we opted for this basic one to start off with. We like it because the foam is extra thick and padded and is made from non-toxic materials (apparently not the case for all options). The pieces can also be formed into cubes so that Jackson has something to grab onto and pull himself up on when he’s older. This is another apartment friendly/space saver product since all the pieces can easily be broken down and put away.
  1. JumperThis isn’t useful until a baby is about six months old and does take up significant space, but it’s a must-have in my book. A jumper lets a baby who’s standing with support practice this skill and get some exercise. Jackson loves it!

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  1. Changing Pad: Assuming you have some kind of changing table, you’ll need a changing pad to go along with it. Unless you want to go with something fancy and organic (and it will be covered anyway), I see no reason to spend a lot on this. I have the Babies R US brand and it has worked well.
  1. Changing Pad Covers: In addition to a changing pad, you’ll need a cover to go over the changing pad to prevent the pad from getting dirty. I recommend getting a few covers so that when one is dirty you always have an extra on hand. To extend the time between washes, I also like to throw a disposable changing pad on top of the cover. This may seem excessive but I don’t throw these out after each diaper change (unless they get soiled) so they last a while and save me from having to wash the cover literally every other time I change a diaper. The ones meant for babies are cute but I’ve recently started buying wee wee pads at the pet store to serve this purpose, since they’re a lot cheaper and work just as well.
  1. Wipe WarmerThis is one of those things that I thought was gimmicky and completely unnecessary so I didn’t buy one initially. It was really jarring for Jackson as a newborn to use cold wipes though — he HATED being changed at first. I wound up buying one after Jackson was born and still use it. Not an absolute necessity by any means but it makes being changed a little more comfortable.
  1. Diaper PailDo you NEED a diaper pail? I suppose not. But if you want to contain the smell of dirty diapers, I recommend getting one. I bought a Diaper Dekor Plus after reading reviews and I really like it. It’s discrete, doesn’t take up a lot of space, and keeps the odors at bay.
  1. No-Rinse CleanserI keep this on the changing table and use it when I’m dealing with an extra dirty diaper. It’s nice to be able to clean the diaper area without having to actually bathe the baby every time, especially since you’re not supposed to submerge newborns in water more than a couple times a week because of their delicate skin. I use it a ton now that Jackson is older and eating solids too, since his diapers are now a whole new ball game!
  1. Changing StationThis is great for on-the-go changing and could even be used as your main changing set-up if you don’t get a changing table right away.

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  1. Stroller: We love this CityMini stroller. We like to go on long walks and wanted something that would hold up to uneven pavement, gravel roads, etc. The biggest plus in my opinion though is the single hand folding technology. No struggling to figure out how to fold it up when you’re done! That said, it’s very pricey and while I do think it’s worth the money, if you’re looking for a more budget friendly option, we also have the Kolcraft Cloud Plus Lightweight Stroller. It also folds super easily and is incredibly lightweight.
  1. Car Seat (& Base): A car seat is a an obvious essential (don’t forget the base!) but there are so many models out there to choose from. We got the Chicco KeyFit30  infant seat because it got top ratings for safety and ease of use, the biggest factors for me. One thing I didn’t take into account though is how it would fit in our car. In retrospect, I wish we’d tested this out first because it’s a tight fit with the passenger side. Live and learn!
  1. Baby carriers: I highly recommend getting at least one carrier for when you don’t want to bust out the stroller, or for when baby is being fussy and you need to be hands free for a few minutes. I have two. I’m not kidding when I say the Baby K’tan was my saving grace for the first couple of months. For quite a long time wearing Jackson with this carrier was the only way I could get him to nap. It’s like a wrap carrier but you don’t have to tie anything, which is a major plus in my book. If you’re like me and don’t want to be bothered with figuring out how to tie something and then worry if it’s secure, I suggest this carrier. Now that Jackson is older, we’re using the Ergobaby 360 instead and it’s equally great but for a different use. We like it for longer walks because it has straps like a backpack and provides a lot of support. David can even use this one too! 
  1. Diaper Bag: You can really use any bag as a diaper bag but I find that the bags made for this purpose have way more compartments than non-diaper versions. I love the diaper backpack I was gifted because it allows me to be hands free and that’s always a big plus when toting around a baby! 

other stuff

 

  1. Nursing Pillow: For getting started with breastfeeding this pillow was an absolute necessity for me. I didn’t nurse without it for the first month.
  1. Baby Tub: Bathing an itty bitty baby isn’t the easiest thing in the world but this tub made it manageable. The design is good and I like the fact that it can be used from newborn to toddler age.
  1. Stroller & Car Seat Toys: These are a must-have for keeping baby entertained in the stroller or carseat while on the go. Jackson was most amused by the owl and Forest Friends book  but there are a ton of options.
  1. Zip-up Footies: I quickly learned that when it comes to PJs, the zip-up versions reign supreme. When it’s 3am and you’re changing a diaper and the baby is screaming, every second counts! Zippers are much quicker to get on and off than snaps.

Let me know if there’s anything you think is missing from this list!

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Baby Recap: Eight Months Old

Jackson turned eight months old on Friday. I can’t believe in just four more months he’ll be turning one. Time needs to slow waaay down!

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The past month has passed by in a bit of a blur. Since starting daycare in early January Jackson has been sick every single week with one thing or another.  First a stomach virus, then a cold, then another cold followed by a double ear infection, then another cold. Seriously, it NEVER ends! The doctor said it’s normal and that we can expect Jackson to be sick for the first six months after starting daycare but I’m praying that won’t be true for him. Really, half a year?! I can’t take four more months of this!! Spring, please get here STAT!

On the plus side, despite the revolving door of illness that has swept our house, Jackson has mostly been his usual delightful self, winning over everyone he meets with his sweet, infectious smile. One of the women at daycare calls him a “Cabbage Patch baby” because she says he looks just like a Cabbage Patch doll and I have to agree! His cuteness is unreal. For the most part he’s a very happy, joyful baby and I just can’t get enough of him!

Development

Jackson is sitting up completely on his own now and has been for the past couple of months. He can play for long stretches of time by himself, which is such a welcome change. He’s not crawling yet but is able to scoot backwards and can actually move quite a bit this way. Once he figures out how to go forward there will be no stopping him! In general he loves being upright, whether sitting on his play mat or bouncing in the jumper, and he grabs at everything in sight.

There’s still no sign of any teeth, but given his need to be gumming something at all times, I wouldn’t be surprised if one pokes through any day. In terms of vocalizing, Jackson goes through phases where he babbles quite a bit and he has quite the set of lungs on him. I’m so looking forward to his first real word!

Sleep

Sleep, oh precious sleep. How I miss you. This probably warrants a whole post in itself but Jackson’s sleep has been pretty terrible since he was about five months old and, with all the recent sickness, things are at an all-time low. From about month one to four, Jackson slept great overnight. I’d still have to wake up to feed him once or twice, but he’d sleep for stretches of six, seven, even eight hours most nights without a problem. Then around Thanksgiving time for whatever reason, he started waking up every couple hours again, and that’s kind of been his MO ever since. It has been brutal to say the least. Although I’m not opposed to sleep training, if I do it, I want to do it when I’m sure there’s no real reason why Jackson needs comfort, and I haven’t gotten there yet. First there was the transition of me going back to work, then starting daycare, then being hit with virus after virus and not being able to breathe well. I’m sure there will always be some reason to delay it and I should probably just get it over with, but I don’t think I’m ready. Maybe this month, we’ll see.

Food

I’m still breastfeeding (see my recent post about my experience here) and at this point breast milk still makes up the most significant portion of Jackson’s daily calories. He’s gotten better about taking a bottle at daycare but still doesn’t drink as much as I’d like him to during the day while he’s there. Often he won’t have much more than ten to twelve ounces. I nurse him before I take him in the morning and first thing when we get home at night, and then quite a bit overnight too since he’s waking up a bunch, so I think he’s getting enough total, but that’s another reason why I’m reluctant to let him cry it out at bedtime right now. In addition to breastmilk, he’s eating a couple tablespoons of baby cereal in the morning (I use the Happy Baby Organic Oat kind) plus a couple of organic puree pouches throughout the day (I typically buy Plum Organics, Happy Baby, and Earth’s Best). At this point he’s eaten lots of different kinds of fruits and veggies, plus some grains, like brown rice and quinoa. He likes pretty much everything and is a great eater!

Current Faves

Here are some of the things we’re loving around here these days, in no particular order:

  • Foam play mat: Now that Jackson can sit up and play independently we use this mat daily. We put him on it with a bunch of toys and he can happily entertain himself for quite a while. It’s also fun to get down on the mat and play with him.
  • Baby Einstein Jumper: Jackson loves standing but can’t do it on his own so he’s a big fan of the jumper, which lets him stand and bounce up a storm.
  • Nuk Pacifiers: For the longest time Jackson was not into pacifiers at all but a couple of months ago something changed. For better or worse he now finds them soothing and they’ve come in very handy during nap and bedtime. He seems to prefer the Nuk brand, which a friend of mine uses exclusively with her son and recommended to me. I know a lot of people like the Soothie pacifiers but Jackson isn’t a fan.
  • Old magazines: Forget the fancy toys. All Jackson needs to be happy is an old magazine! One afternoon he kept grabbing at my stack of magazines so I decided to give him an old one and see what he’d do. He wound up tearing it to shreds in minutes and couldn’t have been more thrilled with the destruction he caused! Of course paper wound up in his mouth, which wasn’t great, but he had a blast. See for yourself below…

 

And here are a few more of my favorite photos from the past month:

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His little smile gets me every time. Love this ham so much!